So this post is WAY overdue, like 9 months overdue. But since I am using this blog as Emma’s baby
book, I thought I still need to finish this
sucker novel up. So I apologize if you don’t want to hear
about the gory details of Emma being born, but I do. So I will talk about it
J.
Ok, so we left off at 5pm.
I was dilated to a 5 (it had taken me since 7am to get there). And the doctor had just been in the room and
said “you have until 7pm to make some progress or else we will have to evaluate
alternative evacuation methods”. I did
NOT want a C-section. No part of me
wanted that. Emma could be my only baby-
and I wanted to feel her being born. I knew though that being induced, it was a
possibility. Remember, they thought my
baby would be around 9lbs.
So Wes and I prayed.
We also pleaded with Emma. I can
still remember myself saying “dear Emma, please be ready to come out; I am your
mommy and I am ready to meet you”. We
took videos. We tried to distract
ourselves.
My parents came around this time. We talked to them- telling them about our
night and our morning. They got to see
me all hooked up to these machines. We
thought it would be awhile and we told them they could go home and we would
call them so they left. It turns out
they went to Burger King and then came right back to the hospital.
Our nurse came back in at 5:45 and checked me. I nervously held my breath. She gave us the results- I was a 7! A seven! In 45 minutes I had progressed from
a 5 to a 7.
Eeeekkk. I was so
excited. We called my parents and that’s
how we knew they were back in the hospital.
They came up to see me and the nurses started getting all of the stuff
ready. They set up a huge table with
every kind of instrument on it. It was a
little intimidating. Would it really
take all of this equipment to get Emma out of my body?
I kept progressing, and I decided to have one last Popsicle (orange). Don't I look so happy to be in labor :).
The nurse checked me again and
I believe I was a 9. The popsicle was
all of the sudden a bad idea. I remember
throwing it up. Then I remember saying
“well this is a fitting way to end my pregnancy”. The nurse came back around 7:45 and I was a
10! A 10! A 10!
I couldn’t believe it.
Emma was going to be here any minute (so I thought). The nurse said it was time to start pushing
so we told my parents it was time to go.
In retrospect, this was a very good thing. To say I turned into another person during
pushing is an understatement.
Side note: I went to a birthing class. They don’t tell you the facts. I thought all of the hard work was getting to
a ten, then presto, wham bam you had a baby with a little push. Boy was I WRONG. In my spare time, I need to write a book to tell women how it really is. Not the glorified "oh oh ahh ahh" breathing they teach you.
I started pushing. That's when we figured that my epidural had worn off. This was some of the worst pain I have ever felt. We made an emergency call to the anesthesiologist and he gave me a booster. Thank goodness for this man. I
was pleading with my nurse to tell me how long this was going to last. I told Wes that he wasn’t supporting my
correctly. He needed to push my back and
not my neck. I had a damp cloth on my
head. I was talking and ranting all kind of nonsense with my nurse and Wes. Basically I was a bear.
Then, it finally dawned on me. I needed to give every one of these pushes my
best effort. No, I did not want to push
until 10 pm. But more importantly, I didn’t
want her to get stuck and have to have a c-section. So I really started pushing (all whilst still
complaining). This went on for an hour
(at least).
FINALLY FINALLY FINALLY- the nurse picked up the phone and
called the doctor. She said “Lauren is
ready”. What, I am finally ready to meet
Emma! Yay!. The poor doctor was not ready. He said ten minutes. What???? 10 minutes of the worst pressure I have
ever felt. At least 10 minutes go by. I remember asking the nurse,
assuring her that it had been 10 minutes.
Wes was trying to hide the clock from me. I told him that I could see what he was
doing, he needed to move it. I kept
telling the nurse over and over that the doctor needed to get here. She didn’t like me very much J.
Then finally, the doctor finally arrived!!!
With two pushes, Emma was out! I was finally able to meet my baby girl.
Wes showed her to me and the first thing I remember
saying is “she looks just like you”. And
to this day they are twins. This was one of the best moments of my life. I got to meet the alien that occupied my body for 9 months. I got to meet my baby girl. She was born at 9:09pm weighing 7lbs 0oz and measuring 19.5 inches long. She was beautiful.
Watching her daddy hold her for the first time :).
I was head over heels in love with her immediately. I think she felt the same way about me. She latched right on and started breastfeeding. After all of that excitement, my parents got to come in and meet their first grandbaby. It was a great, wonderful, blessed day.
Emma- I am so glad I was able to birth you
J You are the best!