Monday, April 11, 2016

Day In The Life | April 2nd

In light of moving to China and a few upcoming link ups, I decided it was time to record a day in our lives again! Since moving to China, no specific day has been 'normal', but we are working towards getting there :).  A couple of things to note about this particular day: I used my iPhone for all of the pictures this time, we arrived in China on March 24th and had been here a little over a week when I recorded this day, we were trying to get ready to move into our house the next day and I didn't decide to do this post until breakfast so there is a substantial lack of pictures before we ate, just a few I went back and grabbed!  In case you are new around here, you can read more about me here, you can find out about our opportunity to move to China here and I answered some of the most frequently asked questions about our expat assignment here.

6:47am: I am jolted awake by a crying Everly.  I try to shush her because Emma is still sleeping, but she wants none of that. She is starving and wants something to eat. Two things are worth mentioning here, I had gotten in a really bad habit of sleeping with the girls since moving to China with adapting to the time change and Everly must be going through a growth spurt- she literally wants to eat all of the time which is so not like her.  I unhappily roll out of bed and get her goldfish.  When we get back to bed, I check my phone and my sisters want to FaceTime.  I text back letting them know we would call.  Emma is now awake because no one can sleep through Everly's hunger cries.


We call Austin, Adge, Theo and baby Helena before we even have coffee (which ironically was their first question to me- they know me too well), we get to see everyone and from what I can remember we chat about what we like in China (the pizza place we discovered), what has surprised us the most (ease at finding food for Ev's and her new found hunger) and we showed off our flexibility skills (i.e. the girls new yoga moves).  It was so good to catch up with them even if Emma was bossing us around with the phone the entire time ;).

7:32am: The three of us emerge from the room and I immediately push the start button on the coffee extra thankful that Wes had prepared everything the previous night.  I check to see if it looks like the sun is going to come out and realize that it is another smoggy day and pour my first cup of coffee.



7:47am: We all sit down to eat breakfast where Wes made us scrambled eggs and sausage (well kind of sausage, it turns out that I had bought some kind of cheddar bratwurst when I had gone to the grocery store by myself earlier in the week).  It is at this point that I decide to document a day in our life.


Emma's breakfast also includes a side of watermelon and pizza cookie, from our favorite pizza place that we had discovered two nights earlier.


7:52am: We are still at the breakfast table where we start to plan out our day.  We go ahead and make a grocery list because there is a public holiday starting today and running through Monday so we must run every single errand we can think of today because we have to pay a premium to use our car on a holiday.  We also make plans to try out a burger place owned by Americans thinking that we must eat at all the restaurants that cater to expats before we move further south.


Wes checks on clothes in dryer- he has put them through two times and they are still not dry, possibly we don't know how to work the Chinese dryer?

8:13am: We FaceTime with Wes's parents- this is now two people in one day which is very unusual for us.  Emma shows them her cookie and then she and her grandparents discuss how much they miss each other and we chat about the weather back in Texas (there have been a lot of storms, but I am guessing they have seen that bright blue sky way more than we have in the last couple of weeks!) and Emma gives hugs and blows lots and lots of kisses.



8:15am: I go find Ev's to try to get her to come say hi to her grandparents and I find her hiding in her 'el-ba-bator' (otherwise known as a closet  :)).  This girl has become obsessed with elevators since living in hotels for the last three weeks.  She finally comes to find us and gives her grandparents hugs and kisses over FaceTime as we say bye.


8:22am: I give the girls a piggy back ride into the living room and it is time to start getting ready for the day.  I remember that I did not WeChat Steve the previous night to let him know where we wanted to go (we have a different driver today than we normally have due to the public holiday and our driver doesn't speak English so we coordinate through Steve on these days).


I pack a few of our suitcases to take to the house so we have less to take tomorrow when we move into our house.


And continue to get ready by gathering grocery bags, checking on the laundry (the clothes are finally dry!) and get the girls dressed.  Somewhere along the way, I drink my second cup of coffee.


During all of this, Ev's finds old fruit snacks in her 'Lambie' backpack and proceeds to eat them, see what I told you about her being hungry all of the time and I start the tedious task of brushing Emma's hair.


She wants her picture made, so I go ahead and snap one of her tangled hair.  I would love to know how she got such tangly hair- it can be a beating to brush it!


We use the detangling spray and brush away and she even lets me put a bow in! Then, she wants to have a look for herself.


Once she sees me snapping pictures, she wants more pictures taken (I am now thinking we chose a good day to record day in the life, because she is usually my 'no more pictures' kind of girl).


And she wants to see the back so I take a picture and show it to her.


It is now time for me to actually get ready and the girls act like crazy little people while I run around trying to finish everything.


Ev's hears Emma say that she wants to wear her new Toms (which is not true by the way, Emma just hasn't been that into Toms lately and so even though she has had them for a long time, she hasn't worn them in awhile and calls them 'new') and insists on new converse.  Her sad puppy dog eyes make me cave and I bring out her size sevens even though I know they are way too big for her.  I snap a picture of these shoes and pause to think about all of the place these shoes have taken her and the memories she has made in them- her first pair of shoes other than moccs. My girls feet grow so slow!!


9:32am:  I told our driver we would be down at 9:30 and we are now officially running late but I want Wes to snap a picture of us three girls ready for our day.


If at first you don't succeed, try and try again and get slightly more awkward faces each time :).


As we walk out of our room, it is always a race to the elevator.  The girls have worked out a fairly good system, Ev's pushes the up or down button and Emma pushes the button to what floor we are going too (because she can recognize her numbers and Everly can't- we will probably be in for it when Everly can recognize numbers).  On this particular day, it looks like Emma is also helping Everly with her 'down' duties.


Family elevator selfie with mirrors on all four walls ;).


9:40am: We are in the car and on our way to Ikea making smiley faces as we get in.


9:54am: We make it to Ikea.  The pointing and looking at us has already started in the parking lot.  I know that we look different, but I am going to be honest here, it has been difficult to adjust to always been looked at.  I know they are just curious and most of the time people are all really nice (I really appreciate the people that ask to take the girls pictures before actually just taking them even though I mostly say no thank you), but the staring and pointing is hard to get used too.  Then, the second they notice us notice them, they proceed to talk in Mandarin and I can only imagine that they are talking about us which just makes the whole thing even more awkward to me.


We need to grab a lot of supplies for our house- towels, sheets, bedding, kitchen utensils, plates, coffee mugs and not so importantly panda bears for the girls.  Our air shipment we know has arrived in Chengdu, but it has not cleared customs and we are moving into our house!  We also knew we were running out of room in the van with the suitcases that I packed and the grocery store run we still needed to go on so some things we just had to take a picture of to remember to buy later- this particular item was chairs for the girls.


Emma picked out the bedding for her and Everly's bed.


And the girls hemmed and hawed about which panda bear was right for them (sidenote: they were all exactly the same!).


Evsie's had wanted one the previous time we went to Ikea, but Emma was sleeping on my back (when we were still adjusting to our new schedule) and so we put it off until we went back- to say she was pleased with 'pandi pandi' was an understatement.


We stop to debate on which rug we should get for the house- I will have to post pictures of the house soon, but I think we will go with the bottom rug. Even though none of the three rugs are really my design aesthetic, we are really just looking for something comfortable to sit on in the living room.




We got there early and it wasn't crazy at all- best idea we had :).  In case you are wondering, the Ikea in China looks exactly the same as the Ikea in the US- the only interesting thing was that each kitchen display had a rice cooker on the counter top which you would not find in the US.  As you can see our cart was filled to the brim as we walked to check out.


11:07am: We are all done and checked out (a nice guy let us use his family Ikea card to save 10 RMB on the pandas) and we reward ourselves with some pre-lunch ice cream.  We find a place to sit down and Ev's is not happy- she really wanted the waffle cone that my ice cream came in (it is weird, but you get vanilla ice cream in a cake cone (costs about 15 cents or 1 RMB) and you get chocolate/vanilla twist in a waffle cone (costs about 30 cents or 2 RMB)) and she wanted vanilla ice cream in a waffle cone, but I don't know how to ask for that and she was not pleased with the cone they gave her.


However, this girl is being extremely cooperative on the picture front today :).


And even requests a picture of her with her ice cream cone!


Everly has settled down so long as she can hold my ice cream cone,


And this, because she is my 'me too' girl, she wanted to take a picture with mommy- please note, still holding two ice cream cones for ultimate happiness:).


She eventually gives me my ice cream cone back so that I can finish it :).  The girls then request sausage on a stick and I cave because even though we are going to go to lunch, it's only 50 cents (so cheap here!!).  Here is just a quick example of people taking pictures of us- see that sweet girl there in the background taking a picture of Emma and Everly. Happens every single time we go out and about.


Wondering what sausage on a stick looks like- Emma is more than happy to show you :).


Sister negotiations or something like that ;).


11:41am: We arrive at Carrefour which is basically the grocery store that we feel most comfortable shopping at- we actually know where a few of our favorite things are located.  As we get out, I take note that Emma has buckled her panda bear up.


This grocery store has the coolest invention- you have to ride up these escalator type things (minus the stairs) and you need to take your cart with you.  You might think it is hard to keep your cart up them because the climb is pretty steep, but they put magnets on the bottom of the cart and you can actually have your cart go up hands free!


I thought you might want to see what the inside of the grocery store looks like- this is a snap of the imported section of coffee and jelly :).


We need to get groceries and toiletries and basically we don't have our crap together- Emma pushes the cart over while Everly is in it which is a parents worst nightmare.  There was total chaos and Emma eventually had to go to timeout for pushing Everly (not over in the cart, but another time when they were racing to be first somewhere).  We push through it and get paper towels, groceries, snacks and diapers and head back to the car completely wiped, but still needing to run a few more errands.

12:42pm: We leave the grocery store and stop at one of the Peter' restaurants to order breakfast sausage and cheese (yay, we found really good breakfast sausage!).  We have a hard time communicating if they sell tortillas, but ultimately we find out that they do and go ahead and purchase a dozen of those as well.


The girls play in their play area while we are working on buying our products and while we waited, we meet someone from Fort Worth but who has lived in Chengdu for 14 years.  I went to high school in Fort Worth and it is about 20 minutes away from our house- such a small world!!


When we go back outside, our spirits are immediately lifted- the sun is shining and the sky is bright blue!


We also see a tuk-tuk type of transportation that we want to get for puttering around our neighborhood so we go ahead and snap a picture so that hopefully we can ask someone and figure out where to buy something like this.


We locate our driver and head to our next stop, Red Beard Burgers- we had wanted it for delivery the night before but they don't deliver as far as where we are staying.  The girls are super cranky when we arrive and we start to question ourselves about did we make the right decision to go to lunch.  It is a very small restaurant- it holds about 15 people.  Of course, both girls want to sit by me so I go ahead and snap a selfie.


This nice couple asks if they can take our picture for us (it turns out that they actually know some of the people that I work with) and here is the series of pictures she got.  All you can do is laugh- we were a total mess :).




We finally get the girls settled coloring with paper and markers while we wait on our food.


Our hamburgers are supper yummy- mine is the first one pictured below with bacon, blue cheese and an onion reduction, Wes ate a burger with a fried egg on top (he said his was pretty good minus the sweet sauce) and we shared chili cheese fries.  Well not many chili cheese fries because the chili has a very weird aftertaste to it (you win some, you lose some when you are in China).  Luckily, Ev's french fries are good (she just got plain) and are plenty to share.  Emma decides she does not want any sausage (read: hamburger meat) and ate her 'burger' as just bun, lettuce and pickle.





2:14pm: We leave Red Beard burgers and head towards our house.  The girls are being goofy, doling out kiss after kiss and playing baby.  I can tell that it is definitely past their nap time as we arrive at the house.


You can see the tiredness in Everly's eyes.


Once we arrive at the house, we take everything inside.  Our driver helps us to carry our suitcases upstairs and we are immensely thankful for him- they are heavy!  Here are a couple of sneak peaks of the house.  Here is our front door :).


And our kitchen.


And this is what sold us on the house- looking outside our backyard is the golf course!


With amazing views!!


3:05pm: After just a brief visit at the house (we were literally there less than twenty minutes), we leave and head back towards the hotel.

3:30pm: We are back at hotel and the girls bust open the Pringles they picked out at the grocery store for a quick pre-nap snack. By the way, they do not taste like Pringles in the States, but that does not bother the girls one bit :).

4:14pm: It is unusually late nap time, but everyone is asleep! I lay down with them to get them to nap hence the big hole in the middle :).


4:28pm: I sneak back into our bedroom with Wes, we watch a silly movie - Fun with Dick and Jane.  It is nice to actually see a movie- I am pretty particular with movies that I watch and the only two English channels at our hotel for us are CNN and HBO and HBO plays a lot of shoot em up type movies that I am not into at all- so a comedy was much needed.

5:28pm: My alarm goes off and I need to wake up girls but I don't want to knowing they need their sleep, but at the same time, I really want them to go to sleep tonight.  I decide to sneak back in and just watch them sleep- they are angels when they sleep :).  Not creepy at all, right??!!??

5:37pm: My alarm goes off again and I torment myself as to 'when do I wake them?'. I go ahead and peruse the Old Navy website, make a mental note that I haven't been on social media all day (a new normal in China) and finally decide to go for it and wake them up with promises of swimming.  Upon waking, Ev's asked for more chips right away- see what I mean about growth spurt!

6:11pm: We are dressed and ready to go swimming.  This is my first time to go swimming at this hotel, because it is not nearly as heated as our Embassy Suites life back in the states.  Since you have to wear swim caps here and we are all in ours- selfies ensues.  Emma must be riding a nap time high and tells me 'I really like you' to which I respond, 'I happen to really like you too ;)'.

ps. Emma really wanted to make sure that her chip got in the picture.  Why, I have no clue :).





And once again, it is a made race to the elevators!


We have the swimming pool to ourselves and so we get to swim in the adult section and the kid section which the girls thought was a major bonus.  It is freezing cold! Ev's stands up by herself in the baby pool with no floaties- I swear she could not do this when we arrived and has physically grown in the 10 days since arriving in China.  At one point, she goes under water, but swims right up.  I think this girl is definitely ready for swim lessons- she doesn't even mind going under water! Wes works out while we go swimming and then I have him grab a couple of pictures of us when he is done :).



Happy to be all dried off and warm again :).


7:35pm: We are back upstairs for a dinner of leftovers, pizza and spaghetti and 'lohgurt' for the girls and nothing for us because we are still full from our late lunch.  I snuggle up on the couch with them to watch a few shows, text the driver about our needs tomorrow (this is really hard to get used to - always telling someone where you need to go, when you need to be there and when you need to be picked up) and just decompress from the day.



We FaceTime Nonni and Papa George who were on their way to the zoo run, watch a final episode of Paw Patrol and get ready for bed fairly exhausted from the day :).


Whew!! What a day, right?? Not every day is this busy, but some days have been busier than this.  We are going to spend the next couple of months exploring locally and getting settled in our new home :).

Friday, April 8, 2016

Friday Favorites: Our 2nd Week in China

I thought it would be fun to start a new series where I show you my favorite moments from each week in China.  There have been many challenging aspects so far, but this will help me to highlight all of the positive things we get to do and experience (just know that it is not quite this picture perfect ;)).

Our temporary housing place had the best play place for the girls that quickly became our favorite! We headed down here everyday to let them run their sillies out :).


And have copious amounts of tea parties meticulously set up by Emma :).


Bedhead curls in the morning light! And added bonus, my favorite part of the week is anytime where we see the sun!!


We found our favorite place to eat- Mike's Pizza Kitchen.  He moved here from the US and makes some of the best pizza we have ever had! We may or may not have ordered here 3 out of 4 nights straight ;).


This girl has been really loving her daddy- she frequently gives him hugs while saying 'dad is my best friend'.  These two will spend a lot of time together over the next few months so that really warms my heart.


Monday was a Chinese holiday so we all had the day together (a favorite in of itself)- we went on a morning walk and found a favorite spot where lots of flowers had fallen to the ground :).


That evening another expat invited us to a Crawfish boil- it was during nap time and we almost said maybe next time, but I am so glad we just went for it.  It was definitely a favorite moment of the week talking to other Americans! Also, this statue at the scared our sweet Everly at first.  But after thinking it over and contemplating it (over several hours), she asked for a picture by him.  It is definitely a favorite moment of mine to see this sweet girl coming out of her shell :).


As you know, I have always dreamed of the girls sleeping in the same bed (in my mind, I have always envisioned them staying up late and telling each other secrets) and so it has definitely been my favorite that they sleep in the same room and as an added bonus the same bed! Now it has not all been peachy and there have been lots of growing pains (my kids are not the best sleepers by a long shot), but it sure is cute, right?!?


The first morning Emma went to school, we waited outside of our neighborhood to see where the bus would pick her up.  I could tell she was nervous even though she knew that we would be taking her in her car and she collected all of these leaves for me and made them into a leaf bouquet :).  I loved it!


A big favorite moment of the week- our air shipment arrived! It almost felt like Christmas day seeing all of our things again :).  We were most pumped to see our coffee maker that my mom had gotten us for Christmas!! We are coffee lovers and it had been a rough couple of mornings without coffee since we had moved to our house.


We are loving to take the girls out to explore the neighborhood in the evenings and on our walk, we ran into this super cute place which I definitely think will become a favorite - I can already imagine the girls twirling here and me snapping away.  It has been way too long since I got out my 'big' camera and took some shots :).


My last favorite is these two- we have rocked their little world by moving to China and they have adapted flawlessly (minus the sleep adjustment ;)).  They are loving us, loving each other and honestly, really have no idea that we are in China.  They make going places fun and for the most part have been well behaved.  Here these two are, oblivious that the whole Chinese police station has stopped to stare, twirling each around while we waited on our registration.


And with that, two weeks of living in China is in the books.

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

Emma Goes To School | China Edition

Yesterday, our first baby started a new school.  I didn't think I was nervous for her, but I cried like a first time mom when I dropped her off.  She was just so nervous and unsure and I just couldn't believe I was dropping my baby off at school in a foreign country all.by.herself. Don't worry, I know I sound dramatic, but I truly was not expecting that response from myself- she has gone to some type of school for the last almost three years!  Needless to say, I thought about her all day long and was anxious to hear how her day went! We took her to school in the morning, but she was going to ride the bus home in the afternoon! My baby on a bus!! Her teacher sent us an email when the school day was over letting us know that Emma had a good day which was a relief.  The last piece of the puzzle was Wes and Everly picking her up at the bus stop (I made sure to tell him to snap plenty of pictures :)).  Here she comes!


Looking so big :).


And super happy to see her sister! Wes said you could tell they missed each other while the other was away.


She wears uniforms at her school! and was pretty pleased with her sticker.  According to her report, she sang on the school bus all the way home, and liked riding the bus.  Her favorite part of the day was playing.  She ate her lunch for the snack and then had corn and rice in the cafeteria. And she did not take a nap (no surprise there ;)).


This morning, she was all ready to go again- I still can't believe she goes to school every day!


There she goes, ready to get on her big yellow school bus.



One final smile for daddy and Ev's (you have to look pretty close, but I am pretty sure that is what she is doing :)).


In case you are wondering, Ev's is having a pretty hard time with not getting to go to school.  She will start in August and it can't come soon enough for her.  She wants to be doing everything big sister is doing. Except use the potty ;).

Sunday, April 3, 2016

Sister Weekend | Part 1

Since early February, I had been looking forward to the first weekend in March- I affectionately dub anytime that all four of us original sisters get together as sister weekend! Right now, we all live in different places- Me, in China, Austin in the metroplex, Adge in Denver and Ally in Houston.  So it is extra special when we all get to hang out together.  Ally and Travis were the first to arrive and town and they made a pit stop at our house before heading to our parent's house.  Everly Gracie was pretty happy about that :).


Lots of my favorite people sitting on one couch!


Ally and Travis actually got there before I got home from work and the girls were pretty delight to see their only puppy cousin- her name is Hatcher, but Everly affectionately calls her 'Patcher'.


She sure is cute, huh? I imagine she will be much bigger by the time I see her again :).


That evening we had a low key evening, the girls and I headed to my parents house to have an ice cream cone and hang out with my parents and Ally and Travis.  Late that night, Adge got into town and the next morning we all convened over waffles and sausage at Nonni and Papa George's house.


Ev's is particularly fond of my dad :).


And the unicorn, Dreamy Eyes, she had received from him the night before.


After breakfast, my mom and Emma were busy getting our picnic lunch ready; I am not sure if Emma was helping or just eating based on these pictures :).


They are both smiling- just at two different people.


Emma got in some baby Helena snuggles before we headed out.


Possibly not Helena's best angle ;).


My favorite picture of these two!! So much love right here- Emma just adores babies :).


We drove to Fort Worth- a beautiful neighborhood, I wish I remembered the name of it, to go on our morning walk.  Our first sister picture- reunited, just the way I like it :).


After we had enough walking and I had had enough of my children trying to climb out of their strollers, we made it back to the car and picked up our picnic lunch and headed to the park.


After lunch, we took advantage of the playground and let my children run off all of their energy.  The slides were Evsie's favorite :)


I am so glad that we stayed in the US and got to spend an extra month with this baby girl- she is going to be so different the next time we see her! I could just eat newborns up, I love them so much!  It is something about their pat


Nonni and her fourth grandbaby :).  Fun fact, my mom has blue eyes but ended up with four brown eyed daughters.  So far, three out of four of her grandbabies have bright blue eyes just like her!!


She is a cutie :).


Emma and Nonni wrapped up park time with some swinging :).


We headed to Central Market after the park to pick up some sugary goodies and I snapped these two very blurry pictures :).



I took the girls home to lay them down for naps so they would be ready and rearing to go for our nighttime festivities :).